Letter to a friend.
The first city is made of music. They called it Hardlings. Music is the only thing that could support all that city, things like sky and floor and houses,all that you can see is supported by music. All the rest is like a dark room, you cant see. The second city is made of tenderness, they called it Dearlings. Hugs and more hugs is what you can have from that city. Once more, here nothing will be possible without the tendreness of the inhabitants. There is a huge problem, you cant live in the two cities, just in one. If your thought is like: "I will find a way to live in the two cities without problems" , well ... the first ones to die to all communities was the ones with that thoughts. So... all you can do is make a choice.
For my experience I can tell you that Hardlings is not a easy city. If go there you have to say "Hi" and name all the names of the inhabitants. They have a very hard protocol. If they tell you "How are you?" in a more private way, you must always say: "Im very well ty", another answer will be so painfull to both that people never , NEVER, say more than: "I'm very well ty".
Dearlings is all about hugs and tenderness. You can turn your music off, that will never make the city disappear, you are allowed and even sugested to you to do. In other hand you have to have a sad and private story to tell in your private chats that way people will talk about you using that private stories and they will feel a big need to hug you. And the city is made of hugs and tenderness.
If you insist in my opinion and you want I help you make a decision... well it depend in what you want from your life, if you want stay calm and listen wonderfull tunes, you can choose Hardlings, but please be carefull and respect the protocol.
If you have need to share with others your sad story about life, or listen anyone story, well then you should live at Dearlings, but then dont complain about the tunes.